The meaning of "Iwa ni Hana" (and where it fits in my life)
I have been seeing some obsessive Google searches of the phrase iwa ni hana recently in my web stats - mostly from the US and the UK. I cannot think who could be so obsessed about the blog itself, so I would interpret it as a sign that curious minds would like to know that the phrase iwa ni hana means.
In Japanese, it is written as 岩に花 and means transliterately "flower on a rock". It is actually an idiom that means "the impossible", because in reality flowers grow on soil and not on rocks.
But there is a place where flowers can grow on rocks and it is the imagination. Flowers can grow out of a rock in animation. Flowers can grow out of a rock in an illustration.
Some readers are shocked to learn that I am actually a corporate banker in real life, doing project finance, issuance of securities and acquisitions (most seem to have expected that I am in academia one way or other). I don't think I am cut for academia, and I actually quite like corporate financing, if only because it made me more well-rounded as a human being. When I finished my undergrad in Vancouver, I had zero people skills, probably not much in the way of EQ, and certainly no effective communication skills whatsoever. I was simply the quiet and introspective type of girl who buried herself in books all day long, and when I did talk to people I probably tended to speak without tact or much consideration for another's feelings. A combination of relocating to Hong Kong, cut-throat competition at work and nasty office politics changed all that. Now I actually know how to build and maintain contacts and relationships, mix with people twice my age, read the air and people's faces, talk (or stay silent) with diplomacy, have ample EQ skills like anger management (like knowing when to wait for an explanation before I allow myself to explode in anger, or when to forgo any request for an explanation altogether and simply work at the solution without any anger or bitterness - an indispensable skill in dealing with certain difficult personalities in these difficult times). I also became more outgoing - like every two week I would look through my book of contacts and call up someone I have not dined with before for dinner. Even my own mother did not recognize me when she flew here to catch up with me. In short, I grew up.
So there you have it. I think nowadays I am extremely grounded in reality in a way that makes me yearn for the world of imagination, and of aesthetic beauty, to which I have always felt an irresistible pull. Hence this blog.
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